Think back to a night where you got “lucky”... a night you went clubbing before knowing MM or anything.When I think back to this night I “magically got lucky” and got 6 numbers and like 16 dances.Back then it was just a “lucky night” but now that I look back it’s because of social proof.
The only “luck” was that I got lucky enough to naturally portray MM, by showing social proof.It was one of the first nights I ever drank (it was actually a high school aged club), so I felt invincible with that Arak Liquor in me.The second I stepped in I approached the only two girls in the club, and as the place got more packed I was the first person on the dance floor grinding the first girl on the dance floor.This set off a chain reaction, by allowing me to get my 2nd dance, which led to 3rd dance etc etc with no rejections.Now that I look back, it was all social proof and not luck.Of course 0 of the 6 numbers I got called me back? At the time I thought... bad luck.But now I know it’s because I built zero comfort, and just got their number after attracting them and moved on to the next girl to dance with.This shows how strong social proof can be.
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, on 21-04-2008 00:26 I went out last Friday with a group of girls and guys, right when I entered the club one of the girls came up to me from my group and I picked her up and I'm sure most of the club saw this. I had social proof there, but nothing really happened during the night. I need some insight here.
2. Written by Puppeteer, on 21-04-2008 00:40 Dancing with one girl won't result in much social proof. It's like dominos, tipping over one domino might not tip over all the dominos, but once 4 or 5 dominos are tipped over then rest will all fall. If your gonna do it your way I suggest dancing with 3 diff girls from ur group and making it look like you don't know them. then being the life of the party and trying to dance with other girls, the sets should open right up for u and take ur dance. ~Puppeteer
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, on 21-04-2008 00:43 PS when you look for new girls to dance with DO NOT look around the club making it obvious that your looking for girls. Be doing your own thing, having ur own fun being life of party then u notice a girl next to u challenge her to a dance off or something playful.
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