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Written by GQ Playa
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Friday, 19 September 2008
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Here's a question from Ryan, he writes
Here is a quick question for my fellow artists: When we kino escalate with a girl and she does not accept our escalation we punish her by displaying negative body language like throwing her hand down, DHVing and then kino escalating again. "Compliance test-IOD-DHV". This is done in the first stages of the game. When in a relationship and your girl misbehaves we do not want to reward her for it, we should "punish" her for the behavior. Here's the question, how do we appropriately punish our girlfriends for minor bad behavior that is not kino related? Just small things such as not calling when she said she would, having random guy friends spend the night at her place, etc. Normally I would IOD or disqualify but being in a relationship I'm not sure if it would have the same effect. She is a professional model, who does artistic nude / runway/ magazine ads, etc. She gets a lot of attention when we go out. I fear asking her why she didn't call will display insecurity and neediness. But perhaps this is the solution to be used at this stage in the game, a committed relationship.
Hey Ryan. This is more of a relationship question, PUA deals more with pickup. No worries we're still here to help. From the sound of it, you're already putting the girl on a pedestal, telling us that she's a model and what not. If every girl you dated was a model would you of told us that or even cared about it? Get over that and treat her as a regular human being, as physically she is made of all the same parts as an ugly girl just has some of her biological matter arranged in a nicer way. Don't come from a scarcity standpoint. If you got a model girlfriend you'll probably be able to get another one. Get what I'm saying?
It doesn't sound like you guys are in a committed relationship yet if the girl would just let a guy sleepover without first telling you. You shouldn't accept that type of behavior. You're past the stages of mystery method and its time to be yourself. Sooner or later it's going to come out if it's bugging you, so it's best to just bring it up. Approach it from a strong frame of yours and why it bothers you, don't let her control the situation and try to talk it down and say "oh it's just my good friend from high school". Tell her if it's going to be one-sided like this you're just going to leave her as you're not interested in such a relationship.
Don't be scared, the girls probably not worth it if you got to put up with bullshit and you can probably find one better. Comments (1) |  Add as favourites (68) |  Quote this article on your site | Views: 433
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Written by Puppeteer
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Thursday, 11 September 2008
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Nimbus is an RSD concept, where if your nimbus then you don't have approach anxiety, bad body language, bad tonality etc etc. You are "outside your head", your not thinking in your head, you have no inner voice in your head. You are completely spontaneous. Think of your best night clubbing, does Nimbus describe the state you were in? This is The Nimbus Challenge, it will help you become Nimbus on command and make you more naturally Nimbus. It's the most amusing challenge yet, take it if you find yourself in the club or in day game with the perfect opportunity to approach thinking to yourself "okay so what do i say... ummm k. fuck now im nervous... uhhhh shiit she left oh well its not my fault, nexxxt". Comments (1) | Add as favourites (67) | Quote this article on your site | Views: 881 |
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Written by Puppeteer
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Friday, 08 August 2008
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Pickup Artist mentality is the worst mentality to have. If you have this mentality then: 1. You feel guilty if an unattractive girl walks by you and you don't approach her. 2. You MUST attract every girl you talk to, even if your not attracted to them. 3. You know your successful because of the kiss close you had 2 weeks ago or the gogo dancer you picked up a month ago. Do you relate to this? Comments (2) | Add as favourites (69) | Quote this article on your site | Views: 950 |
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